A Brief Note on the Role of a Safe Place
Yes, I’m talking about the Scene, not just ordinary brain-teasers. In BDSM games, we often play with a person’s emotions. Whether it’s fear in SM or objectification in D/s, there are enthusiasts who enjoy playing on the thin line between the Scene and violence. Of course, any interaction involving the
Psycho-Masochism and What It’s All About
Summing up my own experiences, the opinions of other individuals in this category, and some studied works in psychology, I dare to state that psycho-masochism is a condition of a person with abnormally heightened sensitivity, whose emotions and mood undergo sharp fluctuations, often in a cyclical manner (dependent on the
The Fears of Submissives in the Scene
Certainly, similar fears can be found among vanilla couples, but among submissives, they are expressed much more intensely, which is why I am writing about them. Any fear a submissive experiences can not only spoil a session but also lead to a complete breakdown of trust, subsequently causing a bouquet
Ensuring Safety in BDSM: An Insider’s Perspective
First and foremost, I want to emphasize that in the world of BDSM, safety always comes first. Whether you are deeply immersed in this subculture or just beginning to explore it, ensuring safety is a fundamental aspect. When we talk about the nature of the human nervous system, we find
My favorite myths about the world of BDSM
When one thinks of BDSM, images of handcuffs, whips, blindfolds, and the ever-memorable Christian Grey often come to mind. Yet, the world of “seasoned kinks” is far more intricate and diverse than the casual fantasies of the everyday. In truth, BDSM has offered countless couples a means to infuse new
A Personal Perspective on Emotional Safety in BDSM
In the realm of BDSM, emotions often take center stage, transcending the boundaries of conventional thought. Whether it’s the thrill of fear in sadomasochistic sessions or the exploration of objectification in power exchange dynamics, there exists a unique space for those who revel in the thin line between intense exploration
My Journey into BDSM: Discovering Sweet Pleasure and Psychological Dominance
As a photographer, my fascination with BDSM and journey into the world of kink began back in 2016, after my return from the army. It may seem surprising, but my interest in psychology from my college years paved the way for this exploration. During my time in the military, I
A Friend’s Influence: How a Photo Shoot Revived My Passion for Photography
In this article, I want to talk about my love for photography, how it all began, and where it has led me. My story is connected to my time in college. During my first year, I joined the “Short Film Club,” but unfortunately, it didn’t last long – just a
From Small Sets to Millennium Falcon: My Lego Journey
I want to talk about my first hobby and my love for constructors. And of course, it all started with Lego. I think I was around 7 or 8 years old when my grandfather brought a small castle for me from his business trip to Moscow. That’s when I fell