My thoughts, stories and experiences

A Brief Note on the Role of a Safe Place

Yes, I’m talking about the Scene, not just ordinary brain-teasers. In BDSM games, we often play with a person’s emotions. Whether it’s fear in SM or objectification in D/s, there are enthusiasts who enjoy playing on the thin line between the Scene and violence. Of course, any interaction involving the

Read More »

Psycho-Masochism and What It’s All About

Summing up my own experiences, the opinions of other individuals in this category, and some studied works in psychology, I dare to state that psycho-masochism is a condition of a person with abnormally heightened sensitivity, whose emotions and mood undergo sharp fluctuations, often in a cyclical manner (dependent on the

Read More »

The Fears of Submissives in the Scene

Certainly, similar fears can be found among vanilla couples, but among submissives, they are expressed much more intensely, which is why I am writing about them. Any fear a submissive experiences can not only spoil a session but also lead to a complete breakdown of trust, subsequently causing a bouquet

Read More »

Ensuring Safety in BDSM: An Insider’s Perspective

First and foremost, I want to emphasize that in the world of BDSM, safety always comes first. Whether you are deeply immersed in this subculture or just beginning to explore it, ensuring safety is a fundamental aspect. When we talk about the nature of the human nervous system, we find

Read More »

My favorite myths about the world of BDSM

When one thinks of BDSM, images of handcuffs, whips, blindfolds, and the ever-memorable Christian Grey often come to mind. Yet, the world of “seasoned kinks” is far more intricate and diverse than the casual fantasies of the everyday. In truth, BDSM has offered countless couples a means to infuse new

Read More »

A Personal Perspective on Emotional Safety in BDSM

In the realm of BDSM, emotions often take center stage, transcending the boundaries of conventional thought. Whether it’s the thrill of fear in sadomasochistic sessions or the exploration of objectification in power exchange dynamics, there exists a unique space for those who revel in the thin line between intense exploration

Read More »